Am I Too Strong?
Get an honest calibration of your energy — and exactly what to adjust.
What it does
- Scores intensity vs. what the thread has earned so far.
- Separates enthusiasm from pressure.
- Suggests a softer reframe of the same intent.
Example
You might paste
Sent three paragraphs after they replied once with 'nice'
Aura might say
Calibration: High intent, low reciprocity — reads as flooding their inbox. You’re not 'wrong', but the ratio is off. Try: one paragraph max, end with a question. Match their bandwidth until they stretch.